Thursday, July 06, 2006

burdens...

Is it sad that I am trying to lose weight and yet here I sit, eating coco krispies? I guess i'm not very dedicated!

Anyway, I liked this forward I got a lot...and it just happened to come on a day when I was highly stressed.

A lecturer, when explaining stress management to an audience, raised a glass of water and asked,
"How heavy is this glass of water? "
Answers called out ranged from 8 oz. to 20 oz.
The lecturer replied,
"The absolute weight doesn't matter.
It depends on how long you try to hold it.
If I hold it for a minute, that's not a problem.
If I hold it for an hour, I'll have an ache in my right arm.
If I hold it for a day, you'll have to call an ambulance.
In each case, it's the same weight, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes."
He continued,
"And that's the way it is with stress management.
If we carry our burdens all the time, sooner or later, as the burden becomes increasingly heavy, we won't be able to carry on.

As with the glass of water, you have to put it down for a while and rest before holding it again.
When we're refreshed, we can carry on with that burden.
So, before you return home tonight, put the burden of work down.
Don't carry it home. You can pick it up tomorrow.
Whatever burdens you're carrying now, put them down for a moment if you can.
Relax, then pick them up after you've rested.
Life is short.
Enjoy it!

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